How to do it: You lie on your back while he kneels in front of you, and you place your legs straight up over his shoulders.
Why it works: Make this one hotter by adding a pillow underneath you to create a better angle for him to reach your G-spot, suggests Dr Jess O’Reilly, host of the Drive Your Lover Wild webinar series. Then as he moves, either of you can press on your lower abdomen to stimulate it from the outside – that pressure will pull slightly on the hood of your clitoris to create a rhythmic massage there as well.
How to do it: You lie on your back while he sits straight up on top of you and straddles you.
Why it works: This position allows you to grind your clitoris against his lower shaft or his pelvic bone, says O’Reilly. As you’re doing that, ask him to make shallow thrusts – to reach your G-spot better than any deeper movements.
How to do it: While he lies flat on his back, you sit on top, facing away from him.
Why it works: You’re fully in control here. “This is the perfect position for dual stimulation,” says O’Reilly. You can take charge of the depth and angle of this one, and use your fingers or a toy to stimulate your clit as you ride him. Giddy up!
How to do it: Lie on your side while he kneels in front of you. He straddles one leg, and you wrap the other around him.
Why it works: As he moves, his leg grinds against your clitoris and also presses gently into your abdomen, which can stimulate the G-spot from the outside, says O’Reilly.
How to do it: You get on your hands and knees, and he kneels behind you.
Why it works: This one allows for deeper penetration and is also the ideal angle to hit your G-spot. As he’s thrusting behind you, use your fingers or a vibrator to stimulate your clit.
How to do it: Lie down on your sides facing each other.
Why it works: It’s like spooning, only hotter, since you’re getting twice the action. Have him use shallow thrusts in this position to better reach your G-spot, says OReilly. This face-to-face position also allows you to grind your clitoris against him as he moves.
How to do it: He lies flat on his back, and you lie on top of him (rather than sitting straight up, like in the cowgirl position).
Why it works: “Even though this one takes a little more work for you, it’s one of the best positions for orgasm and stimulation of you G- and c-spots,” says O’Reilly. Rock and roll your hips around to find the angle and rhythm that works for you, and then grind your clitoris against his pelvic bone as you move or have him give you a hand.
