A wait brings good things to those who come: delaying her orgasm may ultimately boost her pleasure, according to research from McGill University.
While masturbating, women who let their desire build the most before climaxing reported orgasms that were more pleasurable than those of women who rushed to the finish line.
So tease her a bit – start stimulating her, then go back to kissing. Then ease into pleasuring her again. Go ahead and ask her if she likes to be teased – and if so, at what point.
“The relief from the mild frustration may be what intensifies her sensation and orgasm,” says study author Dr Laurel Paterson.
Bonus: the more awesome her O, the more likely she’ll want round two, the study found.