Sick of approaching women and having them blow you off? So are most guys. But there’s hope – there are proven things you can do that will get women instantly hooked and not dismiss you as just another creepy guy.
James Preece, also known as The Dating Guru, spoke to The Sun and gave 10 incredibly easy tips any guy can follow.
1. Stand Up Tall
Standing tall is a sign of confidence and status, which in turn makes women trust you more and makes you more approachable.
2. Wear Red
The colour red is associated with passion, romance and glamour and will instantly make you more attractive.
3. Smile More
Rocking your pearly whites will make you appear happy and successful. No one likes a negative nancy, so staying positive will naturally draw others to you.
4. Don’t Be Afraid to Touch
Most guys are afraid to touch women in fear of disrespecting them. But women love to be touched, so touch soon and touch often. Touching women in non-threatening places like their arm and shoulders shows that you like them and breaks down the distance barrier.
5. “Do I Know You?”
Treat everyone you meet like you’ve known them for years and are simply catching up. It will remove any nerves you have and they will feel a lot more comfortable around you.
6. Mirror Them
A hack to getting people to like you is to imitate their actions. First, start by matching their vocal tone and mood. This will subconsciously make them feel like you will get along and may have other things in common, too.
7. Smell Good
This should be a no-brainer, but please – invest in a good cologne. Weirdly, recent studies have shown that the scent of liquorice is the most likely to turn on a woman. If you smell like you haven’t showered in days, there’s no chance of getting her close to you.
8. Flirt With Anyone and Everyone
It’s no secret that to get better at flirting, you have to practice it. So do it everywhere you go. The bus stop? Flirt. On the train? Flirt. The grocery store? Flirt. You don’t even have to make it obvious – asking a cute girl how their day is going, shooting her a smile and then leaving is more than enough and will leave you feeling excellent.
9. Ignore The Haters
Do you think lions care what sheep think of them? Not a chance. Don’t pay attention to the negative things people say about you. Nobody is perfect – be comfortable in your own skin and simply shrug it off.
10. Dress to Impress
The trick to looking and feeling your best is dressing like the person you want to be, rather than the person you are. You never know who you’re going to meet and where, so be prepared by looking sharp at all times.